Mamãe Noel, ABDL & como realizei o Meu fetiche com o Natal | Ep. 10

I have a confession to make: I have a huge Christmas fetish. Yes, you heard that right, and this episode is the most complete explanation I have ever given about it.

Where does My Christmas fetish come from?

I grew up very Catholic, the kind who went to seven o'clock Sunday morning Mass of My own free will, and I was always fascinated by the entire aesthetic surrounding ecclesiastical environments, Christian celebrations, and obviously, Christmas: the opulence, the shine, the glitter, the lights that My city exaggerated every year in the decorations. Setting up the Christmas tree was, literally, one of My household chores, partly because I never let anyone else do it, haha. I love Christmas. I cannot pinpoint exactly when this fetish was consciously born, but I know that a few weeks ago I finally fulfilled one of My oldest and most peculiar fantasies: I took on the role of "Mrs. Claus", a commanding archetype with a very specific layer of care and maternal presence, different from others I usually assume in session.

What is ABDL?

This episode is also a serious conversation about ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover), a practice that is usually treated as a joke or reduced to a simplistic stereotype, when in reality it is much more complex. For many of My babies, this is not about direct eroticism; it is about regression, safety, tenderness, and comfort. It is a space where the only thing that matters, during that time, is total surrender, far away from any everyday responsibility, whether financial, professional, or romantic. Like any other power dynamic within BDSM, it requires clear negotiation, defined limits, and consent; it is no different just because it seems, at first glance, more playful or childish.

How to tell your partner about a fetish?

I always end this type of episode with advice I take seriously, because I have lived it firsthand: if you have a fetish that you are afraid to share with the person you love, I know exactly how hard it is to open up that space, especially when you feel there is a risk of losing that relationship because of it. Not all fetishes necessarily need to be communicated to a partner, but unless you create that openness, you are also denying the person you love (and who loves You) the opportunity to truly know You, and perhaps explore that fantasy with You, deepening your connection.

I have had mixed reactions when I shared My own Christmas fetish with ex-partners, not always the most positive, but also never the most negative, and that was not, in itself, a reason to end a relationship. But you deserve to be with someone receptive to your desires, even if that person does not fulfill every single one of them. If you do not yet have that openness at home, or do not feel safe having that conversation, there is always the option of exploring with a professional, in a space created precisely for that, without risking the stability of your relationship.

🎧 Listen to the full episode in Portuguese to understand how a seemingly unlikely fetish can also become an identity and a space of genuine comfort.