Frequently Asked Questions
I am Mistress Kaizen, a professional Dominatrix, Mentor and Kink Educator based in Lisbon, Portugal, offering psychological and physical BDSM & FemDom sessions for those who wish to explore their fetishes (and sometimes, their own limits).
I am not a "service Domme": I do not cater to a checklist of requests, but I honor and respect your interests and boundaries within the structure I set. My sessions are pure Female Domination, built on trust, consent and mutual respect. Below are the questions I'm asked most often; if yours isn't covered, reach out directly.
First Time & How Sessions Work
What can I expect during a session?
Sessions are tailored to the rhythm between us and our common interests. Submit your application: if successful, I'll follow up by message or email to discuss our mutual interests and arrange the logistics. As we move into the session, we explore comfort levels together, and they can be adjusted as we go, with communication and trust.
What's the difference between a professional Dominatrix and an escort?
Everything. I don't sell sex. I sell psychological and physical power exchange: control, discipline, humiliation, worship, experiences built around fetishes we share and My authority. See "Do you offer sexual services?" below for exactly where the line sits.
Do you accept newbies? Do you offer soft femdom sessions?
Yes. Novices and experienced practitioners alike are welcome to apply. I'm well-versed in different levels of intensity, and together we establish the right protocols for exploring your limits and desires. Not every session needs to be extreme or painful: sessions can range from casual, non-judgmental discussions of your interests (in or out of the Dungeon), to soft sessions, to obedience and kink training, to a deeper, more holistic level of surrender and subspace.
How long should a session be?
For a single, specific kink from a short pre-approved list, 30 minutes can work, ask Me which practices qualify. For anything beyond that, I recommend longer: I need time to explain how I've structured the session, discuss rules, safe words, and hear your limits. 30 minutes disappears quickly once you've changed attire or freshened up. Regular clients arriving ready to play can do 1 hour. For a proper BDSM experience, including aftercare, I recommend 1.5–3 hours.
Applying & Screening
How do I apply to see you?
Apply via My application form, introducing yourself according to the instructions. Clear, respectful, well-written introductions are far more likely to receive a reply. If your application is successful, we'll continue by message or email to discuss mutual interests and arrange the details. A phone call before the session is optional, only if you or I feel it would help.
Do you accept sessions with couples?
Yes, couples of all genders, orientations and dynamics are welcome. I also offer sessions with other Dommes, Doms and bulls, as well as mentorship for those looking to develop their skills and dive deep into their dynamics, inquire for details.
Booking & Logistics
Where can I meet you?
I'm based in Lisbon, Portugal. Most sessions take place at My private Dungeon in Lisbon city center. I'm highly selective about outcalls: when I do accept one, extra safety measures apply, and I'll only meet at a Dungeon of My choosing or a hotel.
What about timing: arriving early, late, or on short notice?
A minimum notice is required, as I take real time to plan and prepare for each session: I cannot accommodate meeting within 30 minutes. Please arrive exactly on time: arriving early means waiting outside, and arriving late means you'll pay more and play less. Parking is available in front of the Dungeon or on the nearby streets.
Longer sessions, overnight stays, tours, and fly Me to you
I occasionally travel to other cities and countries: follow My [Telegram / Instagram / Twitter] to know where I'll be next, or inquire about a request for Me to fly to you. Overnight and multi-day sessions are available, up to a maximum of 7 days. Inquire for details. If you'd like to host Me in your own city, I occasionally accept invitations for longer sessions at a location I choose to accept, with all communication kept short and negotiations finalized within three emails. These bookings always include My full 24h+ fee, first/business class airfare, transport and minimum 4-star accommodation, plus a deposit at booking, so only reach out if this fits your budget.
Do you offer online sessions?
Yes, via [Telegram / WhatsApp / Signal], ideal if you can't see Me in person as often as you'd like, or if you want to ease into the kink world before an in-person booking. Apply via My application form; full tribute is due at the time of booking.
Rules, Limits & Practices
Which practices do you offer?
I'm open-minded and enjoy a full range of FemDom and kink practices. See the full list here.
How extreme can you be?
I can give you the hardest time of your life if you ask politely, but be careful what you wish for, as I am a true sadist.
What are your taboos and hard limits?
See the full list here. These are not performed under any circumstances, regardless of offer.
Do you offer sexual services?
No. Nothing in terms of sexual pleasure is offered to you, nor will you be asked to sexually pleasure Me: this includes rimming, milking, hand jobs and oral sex. Depending on the scene, I may allow you to pleasure yourself, or use a toy on you, as a reward or punishment, but that's My decision alone, never a service you can request. My sessions are pure, addictive Female Domination.
Do you ever get naked or topless?
No. Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) is My standard dress code. Depending on the scene, you (the subject) might wear specific fetish clothing or attire rather than being nude, but My own nudity is never part of the scene.
Can I take photos or record the session?
No photography or video is allowed unless arranged in advance or you're one of My filming subjects (special pricing available for filmed sessions, which requires a signed image release and ID copy).
Do you use safe words?
Yes, always, and they're central to how I work. Red and yellow are always available to you: red stops the scene immediately, no matter what; yellow tells Me you're nearing your limit but want to keep going, so I'll ease the intensity without stopping completely. Positive reinforcement teaches My subs the difference between good pain and bad pain, and part of the fun is begging Me for mercy without actually wanting Me to stop. I always know the difference, and I always honor a real red. All sessions follow SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink).
Can I bring my own toys or outfits?
Yes, feel free to show Me your gear. Whether we use it is My decision.
Do you smoke?
Not tobacco, but I do enjoy smoking fetish and human ashtray play.
Age requirement
You must be 18 or older to apply or attend. This isn't only a legal requirement under Portuguese law, it's a personal, non-negotiable line for Me.
Tributes
What is the price for a BDSM session?
Tribute varies depending on location, session length and content. If your application is successful, you'll be notified of the required tribute.
Are tributes negotiable?
No. I do not negotiate or trade for services. Special pricing is available if you consent to being filmed for My paid platforms (mask optional; image release and ID copy required).
What is your deposit policy?
A deposit is required for all sessions. This is standard practice to filter out time-wasters and isn't up for negotiation. For discretion, I offer multiple anonymous payment methods. Read about My deposit policy here.
What payment methods do you accept?
Revolut, MB WAY, Multibanco (ATM reference), crypto, card via secure payment link, or PayPal, in session, also cash.
What languages do you speak?
Fluently, English and Portuguese.
Beyond the Session
Can I be your personal slave?
Only regular, trusted clients who've proven themselves reliable, respectful and generous are considered to serve Me out of the Dungeon. Servitude is an act of devotion and submission; it does not replace sessions or tributes. I don't barter or trade. Examples of welcome service include domestic help, errands, financial support, driving, or professional/legal assistance.
Can I bring you a gift?
I love being spoiled: latex, leather, shoes, perfumes and flowers (nothing toxic to cats, please) are always a good choice, black and dark red (the shade of My nails and lips). My size is typically 2/3XL, 110/115DD and shoe size 5.5UK / 38.5EU. See My wishlist for more ideas.
What's your paid platforms?
LoyalFans / I Want Clips / ScatBook: this is also the only place I respond to DMs, so it's the best way to reach Me about your fetishes, see exclusive content, get voice commands, weekly tasks, and more.
