This is the second piece in a four-part series to get you ready for Locktober. Last week, we covered what chastity actually is, who it's for, and the benefits it brings for both wearer and keyholder. If you've got the "why" sorted, it's time for the "how": choosing the cage that actually fits your body.

September is when I like to start preparing My submissives & slaves who want to arrive at Locktober ready, instead of improvising, running to the closest sexshop, buying the available cage and begging Me to lock them up on the last hours of October 1st. If you've never heard of Locktober, here's the short version: it's the entire month of October, celebrated across the fetish community, dedicated to chastity, a collective challenge of surrendering sexual freedom to whoeve

Have you ever thought about what it means to hand someone access to the deepest part of your body, literally? Some fetishes play with skin. Others play with the mind. And then there's sounding, which plays with one of the most intimate, most sensitive, and most unprotected parts of your anatomy: the urethra. This isn't a practice for someone looking for a new "thrill." It's for someone who wants to surrender absolute control over something no one has ever touched before.

I've spent 15 years as a lifestyle and professional Dominatrix, and I've heard every version of these questions from men who fix your car, men who teach your children, men who run companies you hear about everyday.

I share My personal journey to becoming Mistress Kaizen, sharing how I evolved over 14 years of BDSM practice, 7 years as a professional dominatrix, and the lessons of empathy, trust, and self-discovery along the way.

Discover the true history and meaning of being a dominatrix: from the priestesses of Inanna in Mesopotamia, through the Victorian era, to the reality of the modern profession. Mistress, Domme, Goddess, Princess, Queen. What are these figures, where do they come from, and what does it mean, for Me, to use any of these titles? This episode is the most complete I have ever made about My own profession.

Hello, fetishists (& curious ones)! It was 144 days of celibacy. Five months without sex, without touch, without escape. A period when I chose to withdraw My energy and face what truly drives Me. In this episode, I talk about why I made that choice, the challenges I faced, and what I learned along the way. There were easy days, and there were days when desire tested Me in every possible way. I also share what it was like to break the celibacy, what I felt, what changed within

In this episode, I share My vision on the chastity fetish and reveal what really fascinates Me about seeing a sub surrendered, deprived and waiting for permission that may never come. I talk about the physical and psychological aspects of this state of restraint, the benefits that controlled abstinence can bring to a sub's body and mind, and how the act of denying pleasure becomes a powerful tool of submission and self-discovery. I also delve into the meaning of Locktober, th

The real history of the chastity fetish: from antiquity and social control to the curious and ironic invention of Corn Flakes by John Harvey Kellogg as a tool for sexual repression. Before it became a fetish, chastity was punishment. It was social control. It was, as unbelievable as it sounds, a diet strategy. In this episode, I go back millennia to show where one of the most visible (and most misunderstood) practices of contemporary BDSM actually comes from.

In this episode, I share essential tips for those who want to take their first steps into the world of BDSM, in a safe, conscious and pleasurable way. I'll talk about consent, communication, fetishes, boundaries, physical and emotional safety, and how to choose partners and practices that align with your desires. Whether you're curious, a beginner, or simply want to understand more about this world, here's your guide to exploring pleasure and power responsibly. Enter BDSM wit

New episode of Confessions of a Dominatrix is live! (in Portuguese with English subtitles on YouTube) Today we delve into a universe that fascinates and raises many questions: feminization. I talk about the curious case of Sister Hong, share My perspective as a professional dominatrix, and My experience with sissies! What I love about them, My first encounter, and what enchants Me about this game of power and femininity. I also answer questions you send in and clearly address

In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of creating a BDSM session, from the first contact with the submissive to the structure I apply during each encounter. I talk about boundaries, desires, favorite practices, and how each session is a dance between control and surrender. I share the report of My favorite session of the week, a thought on self-acceptance in the fetish universe and a film recommendation that conveys the intensity of the power game well. If you've alwa

After three years away from the microphone, the episode that serves as a bridge between who I was at the time of My first podcast, Torture Garden, and who I am today.

you know how we all have our little quirks and secret fantasies that get our heart racing? Let’s talk about kinks!

Listen up, because we're diving into something not everyone talks about – kinks and fetishes. Yeah, you heard that right. People have some wild attractions that might not fit the mold, and it's time to break it down. Kinks and Fetishes Unwrapped So, imagine the usual stuff that gets people going. Now crank it up a notch, because that's where kinks and fetishes come in. We're talking about those preferences that are far from ordinary. It could be a body part, a situation – any

Chastity is the act of refraining yourself from any sexual acts. In bdsm it’s used as a form of orgasm control, preventing the submissive

Mistress Kaizen discuss what happens when control goes wrong in D/s relationships, how to identify red flags & more!

Dear kinkster, Let Me start by introducing Myself. I’m V. but you might call Me Mistress Kaizen. Besides being a proud Momma of two beautiful kittens, crazy about plants and quite addicted to tea, I’m also a professional Dominatrix and kink educator, which brings Me here, to this new diary. In a deep conversation with Myself, I thoughtfully decided that the first entry here should be about what I know the best, the thing I breath, eat and go to sleep with: BDSM. So welcome to